"Right Thing at Right Time"
I AM talking about Marriage- To get into an official relationship with the one you love and want to spend your whole life with. In our twenties we start to think about it a bit serious but we are excited about it from the childhood, the day we come to know this word " Marriage". Weather we accept it or not but we all start to visualize our own marriage at early age. All we know about marriage or life after marriage is our surroundings and what people tell us till the time we get married and experience it on our own.
I have been a tom boy girl during high school time and had least interest in discussing about it with parents especially when they try to be funny on this. When we are in our teenage, the common question being asked is-" what kind of partner you want to marry" Huh funny!!. Like every second child I also use to say that "No way....I am not going to marry by any means".But somewhere back in the mind it stayed and I also had thoughts about it. I was pretty sure about it that I will be going for Love Marriage. My MOM always had this instinct that she(me) likes to take decisions on her own and this'd also be the same.
I passed my school, entered college completed graduation and then post graduation but the Hunt for that PERFECT" one never ended. I had few crushes too during the time but there was something which I understand was not normal and I pretty much appreciated that. It was- I always knew that things worth doing or desiring are only those which are hard to happen/get. So every time when a warm cuddle of romance tried to make me fall for it, I happen to fell for it but every time how I ended up is convincing myself that it's still not worth. This person for whom I could fall for needed to be "Super Special" like for any "eligible to be married stuff you know!
Finally I discovered that " Right Thing Happens at the Right Time"
I always knew this but still it is in human nature not to be patient enough for what GOD has planned for us. Me too happened to be one of them and continued the search for my Mr. Perfect'. I always had an argument ready to support the fact not to marry this guy or that guy. Eventually I found that mentally I was not ready for marriage yet.
"All life expects from us is- 'Be contented always, we get whatever is best for us".
The time when I gave up on this and finally convinced myself to wait for the right time and not to force things on myself, A MIRACLE happened to me. My MOM Called me one evening and told me about a Random thing which was very regular during those days- Proposals for arrange marriage. It was a lifetime decision for me and I had so many doubts, worries, confusions, anxiety and lot of stress to meet all the requirements I ever imagined in my life partner. This time I dint wanted to hurt her again by giving any hope so I denied even to talk about it. My exact word were- " Ergghhhhh.....You guys will never stop this" and hung up the phone. Again she called me after an hour or so and she said," At least talk to the guy once or meet him once, after that I will not say anything to you" I agreed and that was the Moment my fate was Decided. It was the last chance I was giving myself to try for and it was worth it. I got My Mr. Perfect I have been searching till now!!
We talked a lot, met thrice, decided to marry and finally on 15.02.14 we took our vows & become Husband- Wife.
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